if i think i can figure things out, is that curiosity or arrogance?

"You don't intend to be mean, but it still happens, because you don't think about how people are going to react to what you say." When your mother was a psychologist, you picked some of this stuff up without even trying. "Do you like getting slapped all the time? 'Cause the fact that you feel bad now gives me hope that you don't like people being mad at you."